How to Throw A Fabulous Favorite Things Party!

I had heard of Favorite Things parties several years ago and always thought it sounded like a FUN and unique way of getting people together. I’ve since learned there are many variations of how you can throw this bash, and really it’s completely up to you and how you like to roll for your gatherings. I’ll walk you through how I chose to plan the festivities along with other options. That’s the best part…it’s your party…you get to decide!

Theme: So obviously the “theme” is Favorite Things, but I still wanted to make it my own.  I’ve often seen this party thrown during the holidays which could be a perfect fit.  I just thought I’d do it differently for my first go-around.  I decided since it was my first Favorite Things Party, I’d throw it in May and keep pretty true to the Favorite Things theme and let it lead my decor.  I found inspiration looking at Pinterest and google images which helped me solidify going with the sheet music from Sound of Music (I mean, who doesn’t love Maria?) to sprinkle throughout the decor.

Invites: Call me old-fashioned, but nothing says special like receiving a card or invitation in your mailbox.  Especially in the days of texting, emails and evites…someone taking the time to put their pen to paper, put a stamp on it and send it on its way…I mean, that’s like a huge hug coming via USPS.  Having said that..I have used a text, an email and an evite  to gather the troops depending on what I’m planning.  All these options serve a purpose and it’s a viable and economical way to go.  I just wanted this party to be extra special, I had the time and energy, so paper invites were my choice.  
Now, I am admittedly a recovering perfectionist and this party had me on overdrive for sure.  I didn’t just purchase an invitation (though there are adorable options I’ve seen on Etsy you should definitely check out!).  Nope, I made my invitations.  Time consuming?  Yep!  Necessary?  Absolutely not!  Did I do it anyway?  You bet!
These are my invites:
Instructions on the back of the invitations guided guests if they were unfamiliar with the Favorite Things theme.

To see how I made my invitationsclick here.

There are so many variations of a Favorite Things party, but I decided on these “rules”, so to speak, to keep it light and fun:
  • Bring 3 of the SAME favorite items ($10-$15 each) wrapped to exchange.
  • Upon arriving, each guest dropped their 3 wrapped gifts on the dining room table
  • Each guest wrote their name on 3 slips of white paper & placed them in a bowl
  • Each guest also wrote their name on 1 slip of yellow paper & placed in the raffle box
  • I also asked each guest to bring their favorite beverage, appetizer or dessert to share

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Decor: I used black, white and pops of red for my color choices.  Solid black and white linen tablecloths as well as black & white checked table runners (Amazon) were used on the tables.  
Check-In Table as Guests Arrived
Instructions for the Guests – Carrying the Theme Throughout with the Signage

For my signage: Check-in and food & beverage tables were all made with the Favorite Things music sheets to keep continuity throughout. For some extra flair, I used more of the printed sheet music and black cardstock to make pennant banners to hang at the different stations.  I also used the sheet music to cover the raffle box for an added touch.  Even my cocktail napkins had music notes on them. (Amazon)

Guests left their 3 Gifts for the Exchange in the Dining Room.
Sign on Gift Table made it easy for Guests & conveyed the theme.

Flower choices were based on what Trader Joe’s had available.  I used blush white roses, white hydrangeas, red roses, hypericum berries and fillers like eucalyptus. 

[For a quick tutorial on my Easy Peezy way to turn market flowers (like Trader Joe’s) into beautiful arrangements, Click HERE!]

Guests left their 3 Gifts for the Exchange in the Dining Room.
Flowers kept with the black, white and punch of red theme.
Votive candles were placed throughout.  I buy in bulk from Smart & Final or Amazon as I love the ambiance of candlelight and use them generously.  Come on ladies, we all look better in candlelight.  😉 

[HOT TIP:  To remove candles from votives, place in the freezer for 5-10 minutes and they’ll pop right out. ]

Food & Beverage:
Individual appetizers of charcuterie & shrimp cocktail were a huge hit
Flowers kept with the black, white and punch of red theme.

While I had asked people to bring their favorite beverage, appetizer or dessert, I of course had my own things on the menu.

Appetizers: Individual Charcuterie Cups – Amazon using cocktail skewers to match Amazon & Shrimp Cocktail in Shot Glasses – Dollar Tree

Desserts:  Salted Caramel Brownies & Individual Cheesecakes w/spoons – Amazon

My first Favorite Things party took place when we first started to gather after COVID and individual servings for parties were really the only way to go.  I have to say, I still love to serve them.  Guests don’t want to have to do a balancing act with their plates and drinks.  And they make a great presentation.  They’re darling!

Beverages: Champagne, Wine (Red, White & *Raindrops on Rose), Margaritas, Brewski , Iced Tea, Sparkling Lemonade, Sodas & Water

*Gotta bring the FUN with the play on names. Honestly, it’s those little touches that help make it special. A framed printed list of libations added an extra touch.

Self-Serve bar with lots of beverage options.
Simple touches like playful drink names brings the FUN!

After everyone had a chance to mix and mingle…we gathered and let the gifting begin.  I began by sharing what I had purchased and why it was my favorite.  [I’d purchased Maybelline’s 24hr. Super Stay Lipstick (Amazon) and Sally Hansen’s Double Duty Base & Top Coat (Amazon)]  I then drew 3 names out of the bowl and those three people were the recipients of my gifts.  The first name I drew was the person who would go next to share her favorite thing, and so on.  If you drew your own name or duplicate names, you would pick again.

Once all the gifts had been shared and opened, I then drew 3 names for the raffle (from the yellow pieces of paper).  Obviously, you 100% do not need to do a raffle.  I just wanted a little something extra for my friends…and win a prize?!  Screams FUN
My Three Prizes Were:
  1. Candle from Anthropologie – I love pretty much everything from that store!
  2. Travel-themed “Care Package”:
    • pop up laundry basket – I throw one in every suitcase (Amazon)
    • microfiber towel – cleans sunglasses like there’s no tomorrow (Amazon)
    • Hot iron case – throw that hot flat iron in there & off you go (Amazon)
    • Luggage tag
  3. Movie-themed “Care Package”:
    • Popcorn holder – I’ve found at Dollar Tree, but they’re also available on Amazon
    • Microwave popcorn
    • AMC gift card – I dig the whole movie-going experience
    • Milk Duds – best movie candy ever
Bags were provided to carry home Guests’ swag.

I also provided everyone with handle bags with “Favorite Things” tags to carry home their “loot”.  I definitely errored with the size of the bags (Too small at 10”x5”x13” – Amazon).  I should have gone bigger, but you live and learn.  (I’d recommend 16”x6”x12” so your guests can have adequate room for all their goodies.)

Favors: Last but not least, guests were given gift boxes of homemade cookies that were…yes, ‘brown paper boxes tied up with string’ (Amazon).  For entertaining, giving a little something for guests to remember the evening is a nice touch.  It doesn’t have to be expensive, just thoughtful.  Use your imagination and the options are limitless.
Favors were boxed up fresh baked cookies (one of my favorite recipes)
Brown paper packages tied up with string…Perfect with my Theme!
This party was a HUGE hit and it’s become an annual event.  Again, there are many options on how to throw a Favorite Things party.  Here are some variations to consider:

  • Price point of gifts:  I’ve seen them range from 5 gifts at $5 each to 3 gifts at $30+ each.

My thought was it is really hard to buy something you will actually want to keep for $5. Yes, I’m certain it can be done…but hard to get creative on such a limited budget.  On the other end, I wanted to keep it somewhat affordable.  Did some people go over budget?  Of course.  But no one felt like they had to and it kept it fun and manageable which was the whole point of the evening.

Some of our “Favorite Things”:
Chopper
Scrub & Champagne
Solar Lantern
  • Unwrap gifts for “shopping”:  All the favorite things are displayed for all to see.  Instead of a gift being given to you, your turn would be looking at what is available and picking items you want.  The upside of this is that you get a clear look at what everyone brought and it could be fun when it gets dicey on what gets selected.  But I hated the thought of someone bringing items that were less desirable and they ended up feeling bad about it.    This was the opposite of the feel I wanted for my party, but with the right group  it could be a blast.  

To check out 35 Fabulous Gift Ideas on what to bring to a Favorite Things party to exchange, click here!

The bottom line is you know your peeps and what scheme would be the best fit.  No matter what “rules” you decide on, you’re going to have a great time. And hey, who says you can’t mix it up and do it differently each year?  That way you can find out which way is your favorite (See what I did there?)

As a final touch, about a week or so after the party, I put together a list of all the gifts people  brought. It listed the names, brands and who brought it so if they were interested but didn’t receive the gift, they could try it on their own or ask questions about the product.  In addition, the email included a link to a Shutterfly book made from pictures taken that night.  (Btw, I take zero credit for the Shutterfly book as a dear friend collected all the pix taken that night and put it together.  So sweet!!  Thank you, Lisa!) 

Some of my Favorite People!

I hope this has inspired you to do your own version of a Favorite Things party.  If so, would love to hear all about it—how you changed it up to make it unique for you?!  The most important thing is to have FUN with it.  Because…life’s too short not to have FUN! To join in MY Fun-Size FUN, subscribe below to get my latest and greatest scoop right in your email so you won’t miss a thing! And…Follow me on Instagram and Pinterest @FunwithFun_Size!

I didn’t remember to take many pix of ME…little funny, but oh well~

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